i've been in the same relashionship for 10 years. wasnt always perfect. i made some big mistake and I feel im paying for them today. For last 3-4 month maybe more, my boyfriend has been less than affectionate... like im lucky if I catch a hug here and there but theres no passion. I feel like everything I do and say annoys him. he says theres nothing to worry about. he still call me "my love" he very faithfull, i can trust him on that, but everytime I try to fix things or be less anxious around him I still feel like I annoy him. so I just try to give him his space but I end up feeling lonely and unloved. I miss cuddles, and sex, and just him telling me im cute or pretty, wich he hasnt told me in a while. Ive told him about me needing a little bit more of affections, nothing huge just maybe a real hug and not those half hug when hes staring at his computer. i dont know what to do and I feel like hes slipping away everytime I make a move. ive lost all my self confidence over time. i think ive been criying more than laughing these past month. i dont want to let go.