How far is too far?

So like, I want my first time to be special. But right now, I'm so horny all the time, and I'm ready for sex, I just haven't found the right person. But anyway, like if you're just hooking up with someone for fun or you have a friend with benefits, what do y'all think is okay to do with someone like before you lose your virginity? Just curious about y'all's opinions😊