I proposed to him the other day. we've joked about it throughout the years and we already call each other husband and wife. I really didnt care if said no as long as he is happy and we can have fun. so here's how I peoposed. he's really into LOTR so I bought a leather bound copy of each book and a book that had all in one. well I spent a day cutting out pages, and figuring out how to write elvish letters. his ring is the LOTR ring engraved and everything. well I gave him the book, and he want to go look through it found the ring and the message. he then look at me and said "No fair I was going to ask you at dinner tomorrow." so he gave me my ring and asked me. it was the best day.