So, my mother is throwing me a baby shower and we sat down to make the guest list and this thing is BIG- I did not want a giant party I wanted a baby shower with the focus on baby/ and baby related stuff like games and what not.

It is coed- and daddy and I both have big families (he's got 5 brothers and sisters with families) so even with narrowing it down to family we consider immediate the list is upward of 150- I don't know if they all will be able to attend but if they do It just sounds so stressful

I feel like I won't be able to enjoy my baby shower and I'll be frustrated and stressed as I am now and it sucks- my mom keeps saying financially don't worry about anything but thatsnot the point- how can I fix this

Can a baby shower that huge even work? How will we play games with so many ppl - I don't want a disorganized mess help!