Am I really a PETTY person????
My husband says I am being petty because I do not want to speak to someone who didn't keep they word as a friend.
So....my husband and I travel all around the USA for our job. We are Independent Contractors for SOLAR. When I met my husband 10 months ago I also met our co worker who later became a close friend. We bonded a lot with him...he is 28 yr old....NO PARENTS...NO FAMILY THAT GIVES A FUCK ABOUT HIM....NO MONEY.
Even though he worked with us he could never carry his own weight. Me being the mother of an 18 yr old My motherly instincts kicked in and I started trying to show this young man how to get his HYGIENE in order....how to cook...clean....bathe...etc.
Everything my husband and I did for the past 9 months we included him....the only time he wasn't at our waist was when we went to the privacy of our room.
We fed him everyday.....we smoked weed with him everyday....we did his laundry....we paid for his hotel rooms....we made sure he had everything down to his deodorant.
So in March we decide to move to California. We get to California and start selling SOLAR SYSTEMS. My husband jumps right in and closes his first deal with only 8 days in California. We had to each pay $400 a month in rent. My husband being the only one making money made sure he paid all our rent......made sure we smoked...made sure we ate....bought a car for us....etc
This whole time our co worker has only sold 1 SOLAR SYSTEM.....We are now in July and he finally closed 1 deal remind you we been here since March. So my husband has been taking care of all of us all alone all these months. I have extra income coming in so I made sure we had the lil things we needed in life.
Soooo....On July 26 we decide to drive to BOSTON MASSACHUSETTS to see my daughter and my parents since I hadnt been home since Thanksgiving. We get to Boston and our co worker calls and says.....HEY I FINALLY CLOSED ANOTHER DEAL....
We are like....GREAT WE ARE PROUD OF YOU GOOD SHIT....
SO he carries on to say that he is gonna pay something towards his $1600 debt to my husband. We say OK just let us know when you are ready to send the money.
On August 13 we head back to CALIFORNIA...on our way we ended up getting a flat tire. We noticed that both our back tires needed to be replaced. So we reach out to our co worker.... Who promised to pay us back...to see if we could get him to send the money...since he had already got paid. We reach out and he said he did not want to send us $300 to help us because he had other things he wanted to do with his money.
Mind you....he had already told us he was gonna pay us. He ended up sending the money after our BOSS put him on 3 way call and put him on blast......
So ever since then....I don't like him....I don't want anything to do with him....I don't even want a glass of water from him.
My husband says I'm being petty because I dont wanna stay in the same house as him.....I don't wanna talk to him....I don't want him eating or using anything that belongs to me....and I don't want my husband being cool with him....I want my husband to feel the same BETRAYAL I feel...
AM I WRONG FOR FEELING LIKE THIS????
Everything I did for him....We did for him came from the heart. We are 34 and 35 yes old.....he is 28 and has a lot of growing up to do
AM I WRONG FOR FEELING HOW I FEEL???
AM I A PETTY ANNOYING BITCH???