I need to vent because this is seriously f*ed up!!!
So I'm in a group on Facebook for relationship advice.
I thought it was kinda cool. I don't post my relationship issues on there because I would prefer to post them were no one can even see my face. But I don't mind giving advice.
This one chick (I really wish I could blast her name, but I know it's not appropriate to) asked about how to get her man to do oral on her (in a very, life and crude way of saying it.)
So of course everyone is giving her advice on it.
She states that he never gives her oral, that's why she goes and cheats on him with other men.
Said that the man she's dating had been molested by his grandma and that's why he doesn't like giving oral, or receiving it.
And she boldly stated that HES AN ADULT, HE SHOULD BE OVER IT AND TO MAN THE FUCK UP!
Really. When I read that I just couldn't believe it. She continued on like this about his molestation accusation, went on a while about how she has someone else to feed her oral needs, then deleted the whole post because everyone told her their opinion on the matter.
Now, today she posted something on there again. I asked if this was the same guy she was cheating on. She said that post was all a joke!!!
I don't take rape and molestation as a joke. Ever. It's not something to be thrown around so lightly especially when there are so many men and women out there TRYING TO BE HEARD ABOUT WHAT THEY WENT THROUGH!!!!
I told her I didn't see it as a joke and she offended many with her last post.
All she said was "ok". No, I'm sorry I didn't realize it offended anyone. I'm sorry it really was a joke.
No empathy or sympathy.
I seriously hope this chick gets taken to the curb by her bf.
Just needed to get this out somewhere before I lose my cool on this immature adult.