I don't get it...

Anne

My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over five months now. We're both minors still but over the age of consent. We've talked about sex and agreed to wait. But when we make out and he grabs my butt or boobs and kisses my neck I get wet but never moan but my breathing and heart rate will change. I'm the only one who gets aroused and he doesn't. He says he controls it but I feel like I don't do it for him. He says otherwise but when I try and get him to just let it happen he says nothing will happen and he won't but when I do nothing happens and I can't control mine. So I don't know if it's a guy thing or if he's scared I'll get mad or think he's small even though he says he doesn't need compensation (which I believe). But I don't know if it's because I'm not as sexy as he says or if he just doesn't like to. Any idea? Sorry if this is TMI btw.