Bump in the road positive vibes plz

So my boyfriend and I have been doing amazing I have never been treated the way he treats me. It's all new to me. Recently we have hit a bump in the road and I'm not sure how to think or feel. I usually just move on but this is different. He has just been distant and has told me that he has been going through a lot all at once. I'm not sure if he has had anyone in his corner, significant other wise, to help him or motivate him and I feel like he is pulling away. I wanna give him some time and space to think things over and to be okay and let him know that I'm there. But I also let him know that ignoring me and not responding isn't okay and that I won't tolerate it, at all! I reached out to a good friend/church member of his just so I knew that someone was there to watch out for him, we live 2 hours apart. I wanna fight for us because I care I'm just really scared that I may loose him. Any positive thoughts or advice would be helpful 😌