11 dpo and beginning to think it's not me it's him

Kimber • Stepmom to one👩‍👧Pregnant with Baby #1🤰🏼 Due Jan 2020.

The past few days I have taken a pregnancy test, all being BFN, and I know it still my be a little early to tell, but I'm in my 3rd month of trying and I'm being to feel it's never going too happen for me. A couple of days last week I was very dizzy and fatigued. AF is supposed to make her appearance this week, but I'm hoping she doesn't show.Any advice words of encouragement?