Support needed

I'm just in a really bad place right now and need support. I can't talk to family or friends, they just tell me that shit happens for a reason. My baby is getting removed tomorrow, as it has no heart beat. I just keep breaking down and the guy who I was pregnant with keeps telling me it was my fault the baby died. I know it's not my fault but it's so hard to know it's not my fault when I keep hearing it is :(