My husband and I really, really want me to be able to be a stay at home after I deliver. We will be able to make it work, as my husband has a pretty good job, but he is finishing his degree in computer science and will be working part time (and receiving grants+student loans, thank God). I'm thinking I'll maybe work nights and/or weekends so we will get to be with our baby 24/7 but I don't want to go back full-time... Anyone else make the decision to be a stay at home mom on a super tight budget? Thanks!