Baby names!!

So, my mother and SO are KILLING me about baby names.. both my boyfriend and i's mothers middle names are Elaine. So I was thinking elaina for a girl, they both HATE it. I'm not so much worried about my mothers opinion but I am concerned with my boyfriends.. I know I have plenty of time to pick names, but he is making it absolutely miserable. 😭 so is my mother. Please help!! How did you guys compromise with a completely unoriginal SO?!?!?

Oh yeah. Don't even get me started on boy names 😭😭