Hot or not?? 🤔🤔

Okay, so I really want to change it up a little with my boyfriend, bc we always do the same things every time we have sex and I really want to try something new. I bought a gay/lesbian sex toy and I'll post a picture to follow this for better detail. I have had this fantasy for a while now, where after we go out on a dinner date, I turn on some music and have him sit in a chair and handcuff him to it while I give him a lap dance. Of course, towards the end of the lap dance I would then blindfold him and give him a blowjob just bc it's something that we both enjoy. Then, now that he's super hot and bothered I'll say to him that I want him to pound my pussy. That's when I'll lead him to the bedroom, strap it to his head and have him fuck me with the dildo. Then, since I know he'll be ready to bust a nut I'll take the thing off of his face and tell him as I shove my tongue down his throat to fuck me in the ass. He loves anal, and it would be a great way for him to finish. I'm really nervous to do this bc I'm usually the submissive one, but I think it would be fun to try. Is this hot, or is it more of a mood spoiler?