why cant i orgasm without watching porn?

Question

so I been masturbating for about 2 years and had one partner and one thing I've noticed is I can't orgasm unless im watching porn... my partner has tried to make me orgasm before both with him playing with me (which once he at least got close that way) and my sex which I can't orgasm during sex so far... why is this?
Update: he also has made me "squirt" so I don't get why I can do that but not orgasm during sex

Answer

Being dependent on porn can ruin your sex life with your SO. Something that really helps me focus is when my hubby makes lots of noise. If he’s groaning and purring, I am in the zone!

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One thing that helps is you close your eyes and think about what you really want done to you.. as well as you have a free hand touch your spots I know that helps me I use to have the same issue .

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If you've only ever orgasmed while watching porn, it's possible you're body and mind has just become dependent on it. Just keep trying without the porn on. Try by yourself and with your man and just keep at it until you get it. No porn!! You'll get there and it may be a little frustrating in the beginning but you gotta wean off the dependency. Get your imagination going during. Maybe try your boyfriend talking dirty to you or just talking you through it. Remember to relax and just let it happen. Don't get too worked up if it's not happening. Just enjoy the ride and try again next time if it's not coming.

why cant i orgasm without watching porn?

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