I find it very hard to find people to date and especially hook up with. And I know I probably should hook up with anyone anyways but I would like to be involved with someone and I don't know how to look. Since I'm pre-t and havent had surgery, people think im a lesbian, but for me to be with someone they have to know im a man and refer to me in that way. So straight girls seem to be uninterested and then obv im uninterested in gay girls so that only leaves bi girls, which is a small pool of girls to find. And as far as guys go, if I'm gonna date a dude I wanna be the most masc one but most guys dont want to hear that they arent as masc so like i basically just look for girls. Tips?