ok actually it hurt a lot. Me n my SO went to pick up a friend in town that we haven't seen in awhile. we get to the place we're.meeting him load all his stuff in our car and come back to the house. get to the house we all unload and our friend makes the comment that "I must have a hard time staying away from food. I mean I didn't want to just come out and say you've gained a lot of weight." normally this wouldn't bother me. I've always been a big girl but the part that hurt was instead of my man sticking up for me or something like that he LAUGHS. at what was said. he's now asleep and I'm sitting crying my eyes out wondering if he truly loves me or thinks I need to change and lose weight.