Will It Ever Happen For Me?

I'll turn 39 on the 21st, (True Blue VIRGO). My husband unfortunately has some ED problems. It may be his age (57 next month) or BP. Not sure. But he's been trying very hard to hit my G-spot and follow my instructions. Except he gets overzealous and strikes out 80% of the time. But I'm still satisfied as far as that goes. I'm just curious and would love to have that Intense Squirting Orgasm. I need some detailed advice, if anyone can educate me. Unless it just doesn't happen for every woman, In that case I give up!