I need advice- SO and our friends

I hate how all of my SO and I friends go to him for their issues- it even goes as far as some of our gal friends talking to him about their girl problems down there/ issues within their marriages. Am I wrong to be upset about this? Ive brought it up to him and even asked him how he would feel if the roles were reversed- he openly said he wouldn't be happy if our guy friends were coming to me about their personal issues. So why does he continue to allow this? I just feel so pushed the side from our friends- I know nothing that's going on until it's spilled during a game night or dinner. 😕