As I sit here tonight after work eating some chips, drinking a soda, and talking to my wife I thought of this challenge. Now, I’ve had some great responses to my insights and comments latelyon here and that has made me feel very welcome amongst the community.

While talking to my wife and reviewing the various posts on here, I see a lot of good topics and even ones that really make me think about things. Whether it be past choices I’ve made and how I’ve learned from them, how to tell if a man is cheating, how to help someone understand that in someone’s eyes they ARE the world. Each instance I’ve read or replied to has made me think. And thanks to my wife for bringing it to my attention, but I’m now on this app more often than she is. ((Babe, when I show you this do your log!))

Now I like trivia, I like to think, I like to problem solve, and I love to write. So here is to all the couples on this app (whether it’s just one or both of you in the relationship that is on here):

Set aside some time per day. Look through the posts and find a topic. Once you’ve found that topic, discuss that topic with each other and use that one post to learn about each other and peacefully strengthen your relationship. Use that to see where each other stands in certain topics. Read the comments together and see who agrees with what comments. The comments can help as someone may be able to word your thoughts better than you can!

Let’s start this challenge with this post. Discuss taking part in my challenge with your partner, see if this is something you both want to do. This can be your first discussion.

Final thoughts: Guys, do not be ashamed to be part of this community. I am a guy and here I am making this post. I would actually like to hopefully see a few comments from my fellow gentlemen on here and would like to know how you all like this app. What are some benefits you’ve had with it with your partners? Do you feel like it’s helped you build a better connection with your women? And to everyone who reads this, please let me know what you think about this challenge and if you will be participating in this challenge with your partner.