Ok ladies I need some help here.. my soon to be mother in law is starting to over step her boundaries.. don't get me wrong love her dearly and she'd do anything for anyone but with a baby shower coming up it's like she's doing whatever she wants and not taking into consideration what I have requested and with my mom as well.. she keeps inviting more and more ppl with our guest list way over the limit (mind you half the ppl she invited I've never met nor do I even know) and she's telling others to bring their kids when I asked for it to be adults only.. my mom and her talked and she apologized but seemed upset I don't want to hurt her feelings but am I wrong ??