Unhappy marriage

I pray on this all the time, I just need to rant a little though.... My husband makes me feel so unhappy. He married me bc he found God and said it's wrong for us to be doing things out of wedlock which is true and I respect him for wanting this. But now he loves to make it point that he and I aren't for eternity and that the only reason we're married is to have children. Now he and I both try to be very Godly people but we don't have a Godly marriage.... We're supposed to support each other and be there for each other no matter what, love each other unconditionally. I guess I just want to know what to say to him. Let him know that he can show his wife love and compassion... I married him bc I love him, he married me bc he gave up on searching since he believes there's no such thing as "the one" anymore. He felt like he had to settle. Now I feel stuck bc I don't feel loved, I feel tolerated. I try bringing this stuff up to him but all he says is that I'm stressing over worldly things and the only thing I need to worry about is where I'll be in the afterlife.. which is true to an extent but why can't I be happy on earth too, with the man I'm supposed to be with my whole time here. Divorce goes against our beliefs and sometimes I feel like I want to tell him I wish it wasn't, or that we never got married..