I am getting really annoyed with some of my female colleagues. My nausea started at 8weeks and is kicking my behind this week at 10 weeks and so every time I'm sick SOMEONE is questioning me about whether I'm pregnant. I know they don't mean anything by it but it just really pisses me off that because I'm in that age range and I'm female that's the first joke they make. Almost like it's impossible that a 30 year old woman could be sick for any other reason other than she's pregnant. It bothers me because it's actually quite an insensitive comment when they don't know anything about my personal life and there is a damn good reason people wait until 12 weeks before they say anything. It's none of their damn business why I am sick! How do they know I don't have fertility problems or that I've had several miscarriages and that saying something like that could actually be painful? I'm so thankful that I haven't had fertility issues and I haven't had any miscarriages (fingers crossed two weeks to go!) but whilst my husband and I were trying for about a year, you do get frustrated and you do question if something is wrong and flippant comments like that do hurt when you're trying so hard and it just doesn't happen and you have no control. Every time I get asked I want to be really awful and say to them " well no actually I contracted chlamydia in my early 20s that I didn't get treated and now I can't have babies" just to shut them up! I will tell my work when I am comfortable and ready and AFTER I've had the chance to share that news with my family and friends. Until then, you have no right to interrogate me about my health and ask me about something so personal so mind ya own damn business! Argh! 😤 ok I'm

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