Strip Club? UPDATE
So my boyfriend of almost 2.5 years and some of his guy friends are planning a really big guys night in a really large city about an hour away from where we live. They didn't mention it, but my fear is they will want to go to strip clubs. I had a discussion with my boyfriend about this and I told him it would probably affect our relationship if he decided to go to a strip club. I personally feel like going to a place specifically to fantasize over other woman when you are in a relationship is very wrong. We have a very strong and healthy relationship, and he told me that if this were to be something that would strongly bother me he wouldn't go to any strip clubs. To be honest I feel really bad about this and am wondering if any other ladies feel the same about their men going to strip clubs. He assured me it wouldn't mean anything to him, which I believe, but I just don't think it would be right for either of us to go to a place specifically to fantasize over other people.
UPDATE Cause seriously just read some of the comments and you guys will be able to see it's not because I'm insecure in my relationship, I can honestly say I have no fear of him cheating on me. It's a RESPECT thing, and in my relationship my man doesn't need to pay for eye candy, or a 'pre-game'. Also some of you guys need to stop making assumptions about the people who are OK with there men going to strip clubs, all people and relationships work in different ways.