Safe meds for BPD while pregnant?

Samantha

My husband and I are preparing to try for our first child. I have PCOS and BPD. I'm wondering if anyone has been on medication while pregnant for their BPD? I'm needing to get a second opinion on this, I have two doctors that seem to be more into woo than giving me a straight answer and judging me on even asking if I can take anything that's safe. Any insight would be much appreciated.