Dildo?

Question

My boyfriend and I were on the phone and somehow the conversation turned into him suggesting I buy a dildo. I'm a virgin and I'd prefer to...ya know... have him.... before I have anything else. Idk. I said I'd think about it 🤷🏻‍♀️ Maybe I won't do it.

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Don't do anything you don't feel comfortable with. Tell him you want him first. Tho using dildo is considered masturbation if you do it on your own, so technically he would still be your first and your ladyparts would be ready for him, so that the first time wouldn't hurt and you would know how it feels. But if there hasn't even been amything in you, and you wanna that be your bf, wait.

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You could compromise and buy a vibrator? But if you're not comfortable with buying a sex toy, tell him. If he can't respect that, then BUH-BYE BOY.

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So the comment about "being ready for him" and it not hurting makes me feel the opposite. Having sex for me hurt a lot the first few times. If it wasn't an actual person, there's no way I would go through that pain. I did it because I wanted to be with my boyfriend at the time and share that experience. I completely understand where you are coming from.

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Thank you all so much! My boyfriend is a very understanding person and he would never force me into stuff like this. He just brought it up as a suggestion. And he said he finds the idea hot lol I'm giving it consideration, like I said I would. I may or may not go through with this. I would just really prefer it be him first not a sex toy 😂 Thank you all again ❤️🙌🏼