so my boyfriend is four hours away. I feel like his work is always in the way he'll make plans to come and then we have to cancel cause he has to work including what was suppose to be our week together. can't get mad cause that's how bills are paid but we haven't seen each other in 7 months. I am scared if I go there I still won't see him were trying to reach the end of the distance since we want children and to get married but we can't get together to discuss face to face. I have a five year old and don't want to uproot her to move again. we moved here with my mom once my dad passed away. any advice is appreciated. is appreciated.