My boyfriend loves blow jobs (as most guys do), but I don't enjoy it. A few of my past partners have pressured me into giving them bjs, so there's a negative association there for me. So I've only gone down on him a few times since we've been together; we've been together for 8 months. He keeps bringing it up as an "issue" which makes me angry and upset. Plus, since going down on your partner should be a two way street, he rarely goes down on me because I don't give him blow jobs. And he knows I absolutely love being eaten out. There's so much contention and negativity around both acts, I don't know what to do. 🙁