So me and my bf been together over a year now. We have been talking about moving in together. Mainly him. I have two kids and he has one. I moved back in with my mom after my last lease was up. Just to save up money and what not. Before my lease was up I talk to him about moving together but he pretty much shut that down. He said he felt pressured. I was like cool it’s no biggy. This was like at the beginning of the year. I pretty much made up my mind I was going to stay with my mom and just save up for awhile. Well a few months ago he ask me if I would want to move in together. I froze. Cause in my head I was like, didn’t you tell me you felt pressured when I brought it up. Anyways lately it’s all he talks about. Tbh I got comfortable with the idea of just moving back out by myself. Not to mention he has all this other stuff going on. He’s going to court behind a stupid decision he decided to make. Don’t know what’s going to go on with that. Don’t know if he’s going to have to do time in jail or if he will be on probation. Not to mention his job situation. He works for his dads company. But he has quit once before. Then got another job lost his cool. Broke some guys window. They also filed charges against him. Ugh... like I love him but these things bother me. I’ve talk to him about it and he’s like he’s in a different place now. Honestly I feel like he kinda is but in reality it still bothers me. So when he keeps asking me about moving in together I still freeze up. I don’t want him to think I don’t love him or want a future with him. I do but I feel like right now may not be a good time to do so. Idk how to tell him that without sounding like a complete B. Guess I’m just looking for advice on the situation....