So the first time we tried to concieve I tried to pee on the test and I messed it up, and my husband wanted me to wait until he came home from work to take another test because he wanted to be there. I didn't want to wait so I took it anyway, found out I was pregnant, then didn't tell him I took it and retook the test when he came home. I didn't tell him till our kid was one, and he felt very hurt and betrayed. Now we are trying a second time and he is adamant that he wants to be there to take the test with me. I think that's unrealistic. It also barrs me from suprising him. What do you ladies think? I should mention he leaves for work at 5:45am.