Is it wrong?

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I have a friend who has abortions like its going out of style. She can very well do what she wants , her body .. her life ... but she keeps getting pregnant because shes just being irresponsible sleeping with someone while shes not on bc & not using a condom. So its like hello what else do u expect to happen?? Thats how u make a BABY . So everytime shes pregnant she just says , “idc because im getting an abortion anyways” and actually its annoying to me . Do what u want but i dont want to hear about how your just going to willingly have abortions every single time u get pregnant & not care about it!! 
Idk am i wrong for being annoyed by it? Or is it not my place?

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I’m all for “my body my choice” and I’m pro choice, but abortions are not a form of birth control!! Why haven’t her doctors told her about the side effects of having multiple abortions? But aside from pregnancy she could get hiv or herpes or some other sti. She’s living a dangerous life. She’s very irresponsible but you can’t control her🤷🏾‍♀️ she’s your friend Express how you feel to her but don’t come off like you are judging her. But if she’s going to keep being irresponsible then tell her keep you out of it

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Oh my goodness. I can't even with this. That's so awful. I'm pro life all the way, but I don't judge anyone for having an abortion, but when someone does it just because they can't be bothered to use any form of birth control or even take Plan B? That's so ridiculous to me and I honestly couldn't be friends with someone that just used abortion as a form of birth control.

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You have a right to be annoyed. You also have a right to ask her not to tell you about it. She can do what she wants with her body but you at the same time have a right to not want to know what she does with her body

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"Not my circus not my monkeys". 
Yeah she has the right to do whatever she wants with her body but you have the right to ask her to stopping telling you about it. Don't make it dramatic. Just be like "hey since that's totally none of my business I'd rather we talked about something else"

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I agree with all of you 100% !!

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she wouldn't be my friend any longer, she doesn't care about herself and sounds immature and selfish, I couldn't deal.

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Can you suggest an adoption if she doesn't want a baby?

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No you’re not wrong for getting annoyed with her. I would have also got annoyed with her situation. And the fact that she’s bluntly just saying “she don’t care she’s gonna get an abortion anyways” would make me even more upset tbh. Like if you don’t care why should I . Do you know if she wants kids in the future? Because having so much adoration will mess up your insides not allowing you to ever be able to conceive a child. She needs to think about it. Sooner or later her body would be showing signs of complication.

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How many has she had?

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You can be annoyed, but unfortunately there is nothing you can do. I would just distance yourself from her.

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