a little help those who know the cervix well

Kaitlyn

Hello! I may just be getting my hopes up but I am struggling to try and diagnose my cervix. It seems to be very high and feels long and soft. i can only find it when I lay on my back. It seems to be a little higher than the length of my index finger. I can not reach it at all when standing, which is different than last month. this is my 4th month ttc, and i used pre seed constantly, however im not sure if i can say i may be pregnant. I chose not to stress and only go by opks, which i took near when i thought I may peak. I did get a peak on clear blue and had sex but i didnt plan like the other month. So far I am 5 days for my period (this friday) and have white mucus. However i had this last month before my period at well. After checking my cervix minutes ago i experiences small cramps in my lower stomach like period cramps. Anyone know if this is normal? I had a terriblw cramp on my right ovary area once for an entire day that hightened during sex that day. I have not had it since but have been worried. Got a negative at 7dpo.