not sure if any of you reading this have read my last post, but my sister in law is in constant competition with us (and by us i really mean ME). my husband and i are expecting our second child April 2018 and I was planning on telling our parents this weekend.. we just had a lovely weekend at her place but i refrained from sharing the news because i felt the time wasnt right. anyways, tonight my husbad shows me a text from her saying , "are you guys planning to have more kids? because we are going to try soon". of course i am so excited for them, but i asked my husband if he was going to tell her we were already pregnant and he said no. then he said she can find out at our sons 1st birthday in November, where we were planning on having a gender reveal as well, since it is hard to get all of our families together. this irritated me because his sister has a pattern with me. she hates me until something "major" happens in her life (like engagement, buying a home, getting married, etc.) then shes magically my friend for awhile. same with our marriage, that upset her, she didnt talk to us for 2 years, hasnt really been in her nephews life until recently when she bought her "forever home". im just annoyed at the fact that she cant handle happy things in life when its for others, especially me. i told my husband she needs to learn that things, such as havig babies, can happen simultaneously in life and that's okay. he said shes supposedly okay with that but i doubt it ,because why would she need to ask if we are having more kids!!?! my husband thinks we are gona "hide" this pregnancy until my sons bday, but im already showing now and ill be 20 weeks by the time the party happens. his sister is just so exhausting!! i cant stand when people cant be happy for other people. its so petty. if she wants to have kids it shouldn't matter if we are pregnant or not. she just needs to live her life without vhecking in on us. its so irritating to me.