Should me and boyfriend quit smoking weed?

Not forever, but just until I can figure out what is the cause of me not being able to concieve. I probably want to stop smoking for 2 weeks to a month also to try and get my old self back. I’m way too reliant on weed. When I’m sad I smoke. When I can’t sleep I smoke. When I’m having an anxiety attack I smoke. I don’t know who I am anymore because my getaway is always smoking pot. Same with me and my boyfriend. Sometimes we get so hotheaded at each other resulting to weed is the only way for us to calm down and talk to one another and of course don’t forget the sex that comes with that.