My boyfriend and I are going through a 5 week dry spell at the moment because my health is in the way constantly. I’ve had outbreaks of cystitis, bladder infections and thrush. I also have hypermobility in my hips and legs that has only just been diagnosed. And these types of things can make you depressed with feeling vile and unattractive as your feeling dirty.

My hypermobility is acting up at the moment and I have only very recently gotten over another painful and uncomfortable of thrush and a bladder infection. And I have finally got my high sex drive back but I have to wait for the all clear from my doctor. I have had vaginal swabs come back as normal which is a good sign.

I’m permanently horny around my boyfriend and he’s always horny around my but respects that my health and everything that goes on.

When I have a clean bill of health I want to do something special for him. Anyone got any suggestions?