I'll try to make this as short as possible. At the end of July, my husband up and left without saying anything. I left for work, exchanged a few text messages and he was gone. he told me he was going out to lunch with his grandfather, okay cool, I'll see you when you get home, no we are on our way to California. Whoa! So here October is approaching and I haven't heard anything from him. Absolutely nothing. I kinda knew something was up because he started acting way weird with his phone. doing things with it when I'm not in the room and abruptly ending a conversation when I walk into the room. I've tried to call him, only for it to go straight to voicemail, but send a text and he replies that he's busy. Absolutely broke my heart. I'm leaning towards of just filing for a divorce, or should I go to California and see what's going on?🤔🤔🤔🤔 I need some advice ladies, we've only been married a year and a half. 😔😔😔😔 I was the only one working while he would go to a local bar and spend 13 to 14 hours a day down there, it was a place where a lot of college kids hang out, now mind you my husband and I are 11 years apart. I'm seriously heartbroken over this. 💔