I feel like my faucet has stopped working

So ladies I am very sexually active. I masturbated as A young girl and I can clearly remember getting so wet it would scare me. Now that Im older, I have an issue with getting as lubed as I used to. It takes the LONG haul just to get there and it annoys the hell out of me. My partner says i get wet, but to me i know how wet I can truly get and its not even close... We’ve tried long times of foreplay, even oral ( I dry almost straight up after he’s finished), and lube doesn’t agree with me and I don’t care for it either.

Any tips on how to fix this naturally? How to get my flora down south back? Only health issues I have are anemia but it isn’t severe..... please please please help 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭