Today my husband and I were going to BD but he pulled out a condom...long story short I ended in tears and he pretty much summed it up to he was glad we did not get pregnant these last two months and we should wait a while. I sobbed for hours trying explain how broken and empty my heart felt with out the idea of a baby. I just feel so hurt he isn't feeling the same way. ADD ON: it was because he doesn't think we are financially steady enough, when knowing this is what I wanted I worked hard to prepare a year worth of expenses in order to have a baby. we are young but I want nothing else in the world but to be married and have a baby.