my husband and I decided that we were going to try for a baby, so in July I had my mirena removed. now it seems that when I'm in my fertile window he doesn't want to BD!! I admit that since getting off birth control my hormones are crazy when I'm in my fertile window, but I don't think every other night for a week is unreasonable! ever since I got the mirena out if I want to have sex it's a no go, but if he wants to then I better be ready, but when he wants to I'm either on my cycle or just not in the mood because he's turned me down so much.