So my husband and I have a good relationship he's really easy going and i try to be as well we hardly ever argue but ...the problem is when we do it's really bad he turns into a completely different person his eyes open wide and starts swearing up a storm calling me a fucking bitch and starts using his hands it kinda scares me that he will one day loose his shyt and hit me. He says it's my fault because I keep going or I provoke it but no matter how pissed I and if I see that I hurt him I stop he does not. My parents divorced because my dad was mentally abusive with my mom and I'm really sensitive to verbal abuse words like bitch. Am I over reacting I told him we have to go to counseling this week or as much as I love him and it kills me we can go on because this is something I can not live with.