Loving boyfriend isn't so loving anymore?
This is a message I sent to my mom and dad and just want feedback from you guys. I'm currently 7 months pregnant and just really want to hear what others have to say about my situation
"You can tell me I'm wrong or being selfish but it's bothering me. I get Eric (my boyfriend) works and goes to school I don't ask anything of him you know? But I'm starting to get tired of him snapping at me and having no patience with me. Last night we had KFC I got the plates out and everything and he could tell I'm just physically tired and he just takes his plate to throw out and not mine? I do it when I get up I take his plate but he won't bother doing that for me. I get upset over the little things and he does this all the time I'm just tired of it. Last night he just got up at 10 and just left me to go to bed which I get but really... I was up really late and I was down and I had to clean everything like putting the food away and putting the dishes in the washer because he just throws it in the sink. Today I woke up because he was saying bye because he's getting my car done and he wanted to go to the gun range. I get it you want time with yourself but we just ate and you left and I'm up and want to be with you. Monday -Friday I don't see him in the morning and at night I just cook or get food and we eat and he goes to bed. I was crying so bad 2 weeks ago because my legs were swollen and hurting and he wouldn't wake up he acted like he wasn't capable. You'd think he'd leave me a 20 ( not saying he should or has to) but leave me a. 20 to get my swollen feet done it's 20 to go to the range and I don't ask for anything because he makes me feel like shit just. Idk if he's just out in space but he doesn't treat me like I'm pregnant he won't give me back rubs or foot massages he refuses and if he does he stops after 3 seconds of doing it and I'll say babe and he snaps. I just see the small things. I just wish he'd think about me. Last week he yelled at me because I didn't cook that ONE NIGHT because I didn't feel good I stayed at the apartment the entire day I tried to clean I did do laundry I just didn't cook something for him to come home to and he gives me a lecture saying " you don't fucking do shit. I'm at school and work all day and you can't fucking cook!?" By the way remember you took me to Walgreens and u got me a pizza that was that night but he was mad I didn't put it in the oven I accidentally fell asleep. I noticed he doesn't come home at 11:30 anymore he drags or he's another hour late and he will tell me he stopped at his parents which I don't understand. He will leave for work early and won't tell me why. Mom tells me how you treated her so nice and surprise her just to do it and I wish I had that yet I just get yelled at. He snaps at me when I need something like the pads or a long sleeve shirt for class( I got the wrong one) or milk so I can eat my cereal that I crave everyday but he just snaps and then I have to go to you for money. Just the little things I see and that make a difference. He's a pig I clean up after him does he not notice? I asked him the other day because I was really sick just to clean the kitchen a little and put the dishes in the washer and he didn't even touch anything I don't bring any of this up because I know I will be bitched at. Doesn't even feel like he's excited for Kane anymore. He's not goofy anymore. He doesn't know what caring a child means or does to a person physically and mentally. He doesn't think it's a big deal. If I'm sick or down or my ankles are swollen I say it's the pregnancy and he will say no or if I'm tired he doesn't understand I need the sleep he just calls me lazy because when I do sleep I didn't get to the laundry or clean or dinner. I don't know if you understand where I'm coming from. I just know you treated mom well and you knew it takes a lot on a person. He doesn't. And like the little things like a note saying " here's a 20 go get your feet done". Last week I left notes for him to wake up to just goofy ones that I stuck to the coffee pot and creamer. Every night dad I mean every NIGHT I guess I move in the middle and go into "his space" and he will fucking shove me shove me not push or tap to wake up but fucking shoves me and yells at me at 5 in the morning telling me to move. I'm just very lost. Feel very unwanted"
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