Advice.

when is the excuse "sorry i've been so busy" not valid anymore? im talking to this guy long distance, he's away at college. and ik he really is busy but like damn u don't have a second? he goes out a lot too and posts on his story. its just getting to be a little unfair to me bc im over here stressing, and i can't get mad cuz he ain't my bf, and he always asks if im mad and i don't wanna say yes bc he's just gonna make me seem crazy by using that fucking excuse that he's busy. i hate it. he's coming home next weekend. its funny cuz he thinks he's getting sex from me. absolutely not.