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PLEASE DONT IGNORE ME 😭😭 okay so my SO & I have been together for 3 years! We live together but are not married yet & don't have kids ! First year everything was perfect, he was so romantic ALWAYS! He would always bring me flowers to my house & tell me I'm pretty & that he loved me ! Now, he doesn't care! He doesn't tell me I'm pretty, he doesn't tell me anything sweet 😞 I don't think he's cheating on me because he always lets me see his phone & well he doesn't go out, he doesn't like to! But I don't know what's going on 😔 I've tried talking to him a lot of times but he doesn't change! When we go to sleep he doesn't really hug me, he'll just turn around & go to bed! We don't make out 😔 only when he's drunk, he doesn't hug me like because he wants too! He hugs me because I tell him too, I just feel so alone all the time 😭😞 ! What can I do? 😞 right now he's been in the bathroom for 30 minutes, he said he was going to take a shower but he's just sitting on the toilet listening to music!

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Love can be suffocating when you think about it. I see so many people who think they aren't being "loved" because their bf/gf isn't all up their ass 24/7 like at the beginning of the relationship. Dudes like a bit of space for themselves, just as we chickies do. You should trust that he loves you just as much as he did before and fill the time he isn't spending with you with yourself. Sometimes we forget that it's ok to be alone. Schedule times to be together rather than expecting but around the clock. Dates if you will. Try and split the together time into equal portions of things he loves andthings you love so everyone gets something out of the "date". Chillax girl, I'm sure it'll be fine. Listening to music alone in the bathroom is a sign of needing private time to just be, not a sign of cheating or not loving you.

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It seems like maybe your guy could be having some emotional problems, he could possibly be depressed. It may not even be you, maybe he's dealing with some internal stuff and it could be affecting your relationship. Just love on him! Ask him if he's okay and tell him you're there to talk and be there for him

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not sure how to really help you. My hubby was never romantic like that, but things did change the longer we were together. Maybe see if you can get him to do a date night and just be straight and tell him what you want. But honestly I don't think things will ever be the way they used to. people grow and change. But no reason for him not to put a little effort in

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I feel you pain! I been with my guy for 4 years and I want a child. He says he is catholic and that we should be engaged bc we are living in sin right now bc i had a child with someone else 7 years back. he wants to wait on having a child for another year. I'm 33 right now and don't want to wait.

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You need to tell him you don't feel loved without these things and why should you stay if he doesn't love you? He cannot take you for granted.
Have you each taken the love languages test? Look up the 5 love languages online and take it to see what you each need to complete your relationship.

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he's not depressed is he ? drag him out of the house. ... shake him a bit .. do crazy stuff together like little adventures ..be playful with him .... seduce him .... you reach out to him now 😊😊

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gotta sit down and talk to him. make him understand you feel like he's been distant. if he asks why tell him how.

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