Need some encouragement

Feeling so discouraged after being ignored by my husband ALL day, we only have the weekends together because the week is so busy but he spent the entire day to himself with a super rude attitude, after I woke him up with breakfast and wanted some help cleaning only for him to come back home to a clean house after being out doing what he wanted today, to ask what’s for dinner.

Saying he didn’t need to help clean because he does the dishes throughout the week and says he keeps the place clean that it’s just all my mess all the time. I’ve been going through so much lately (parents are getting divorced and there’s so much drama) and I’m just so tired of feeling defeated...he told me he wanted a better wife tonight and I just feel so shitty about myself. I’m usually not a nagger and I’m super positive but... all day I’ve been wanting to just be around him and have some help around the house and now I want nothing but to be alone😓