ok. My husband likes to start his day off by masturbating in bed next to me, because I work nights, I'm usually too tired to wake up and care, but this past week has been my fertility window, and I've been telling him to wake me up, whether I'm actually in the mood or not you'll get sex. 3 separate times, including my peak day, I wake up to him masturbating, and convince him to BD instead. I just, I'm pretty close to losing it. I don't know if it's just too much of a habit or he's not taking it seriously.