Okay here's the deal. I'm a lesbian.

I track my ovulation and menstrual cycles.

I take the prenatals and herbs.

I try not to stress and eat right.

I plan for the natural part (several times) with the donor when the ovulation tests are positive.

I'm honestly starting to feel that I'm being punished for being a lesbian. Since I'm not having sex constantly with a guy on a daily or weekly basis then the whole family thing just isn't going to happen for me and my girlfriend.

Any feedback would be appreciated I guess. I'm just really starting to feel like my choice of happiness (being with my gf or any female/being a lesbian) is costing me to have a family? :(