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my almost 3 yr old (10/17) suddenly is having issues sleeping/staying in her room all night, to the point of screeching/ wailing/waking her 6 yr old sister who has school during the week... type of stuff. typically we calm her and repeat part of the bedtime routine, and that usually does the trick but this week she has been relentless. i am exhausted, hubby is too, and were kind of at a loss. i dont know what exactly im looking for. venting. advice. just knowing im not alone.... this has just got me at my wits end... im too "strict" with my oldest, too "giving in" with my youngest, not enthusiastic enough with intimacy for my husband, cant seem to keep up with my own expectations of myself/my preferred house hold care (sahm) maybe it all bothers me more because i just feel like a generic failure? hell if i know. thanks for reading anyways. ♡