need advice 😭😭😭😭

My boyfriend and I been going through a rough patch in our relationship...we are in a long distance relationship and I know that all the time it isn't going to be easy but how can it be when he treats me more like one of his friends than his girlfriend (calls me dude 9-10 times ) ...he doesn't text me or calls me as much and when I tell him he takes it as I'm just complaining...and when he asks me about my day I just tell him about school because that's the only thing I do (i don't go out) and he always says"you always talk about school or complain about it" so I get sad when he says shit like that...but I feel like breaking up with him in person when he comes visit me...but I then I feel like I can't because I really do want to be with him and he is my best friend and I don't know how life is without him(best friend of 6 years)