Sex and Christianity

Hey everyone,

I’m just tired of waiting for the ‘right’ guy to ‘come’ and thinking of losing my virginity (I’m 20) cause I sorta think I’m never gonna get married cause no guy has asked me out/approached me for more than 3 years now. Is it ‘right’ to have sex from a Christian point of view or would I be sinning?

Another question lol. So I don’t know if other communities have this problem so to say (I’m African). Why is it frowned upon when women have sex before marriage and virginity is taken seriously but when guys do it it’s completely normal?

Thanks everyone xXx