He doesn't love me, I'm just comfortable

Since our daughter arriving I've realized my boyfriend does really love me, we are just comfortable with each other. Yes I know babies change things but I never thought things would be like this. I will attempt to make conversation and I'm ignored because whatever on tv or his phone is more interesting. He just lets our daughter scream because she needs learn to self soothe. ( I agree with to some extent. She makes herself sick from crying so hard). He hasn't touched her since we left the hospital and when I ask him to grab her he tells me she's fine. There's nothing between us anymore. I wish things would go back to how they were before our daughter was born but I wouldn't change her for anything.