My husbands “ex best friend” molested me when I was 14, right after we got together. I didn’t tell him for 3 years and I told him and he got bad and freaked out and said I was lying and all that. And we talked, he said he believed me. It’s been a few years now, we are now married. After a year of being married we got into a HUGE fight and he left for a few days. He called this guy up and went out with him.. all day. He lied and I just found out because his mom accidentally spilled it while talking to him.

It’s only been 3 months since then. I’m at a loss for words. I kind of want to leave now.. my heart is breaking and I’m freaking out. From what his mom said (she didn’t know I was listening) and she said they were talking and went out and did all this stuff. He MOLESTED me. I feel like the guy probably made him believe I’m bat shit crazy and lied about it. I’m just.. idk. I don’t even want to talk to him..

Please help.

Update: I confronted him and he keeps saying he “had to make sure I wasn’t lying” because I’m his fucking wife but he had to make sure? Idk anymore guys. This is fucked up. I told him what if it was our daughter, would he have had to make sure then? Of course not! Also, what husband wouldn’t KILL the fucker? He said he could tell he was lying because he got all shaky and stuff but come on, you don’t just fucking allow someone to do that and not even hit them. He was gone with them for like 8 hours. The guy probably denied it, and then he stuck around and hung out. I struggle with this SO much. I was raped a few months before that so it’s a BIG thing in my life and he doesn’t fucking care.